The Missing Piece: How Disconnection from the Soul is Destroying Modern Relationships
- Liz Alexander
- May 29
- 2 min read
In a world of dating apps, self-help books, and endless relationship advice, why are so many partnerships still falling apart? Why do so many women feel unseen, unheard, and unloved even in committed relationships?
At the heart of it lies a spiritual epidemic—the lack of connection to the self.

The Forgotten Sacred Bond
Modern relationships are often built on compatibility checklists, shared interests, and physical attraction. While these can create surface-level connection, they’re not enough to weather the emotional storms or cultivate deep intimacy. When a woman is disconnected from her soul—her inner truth, her feminine essence, her emotional and energetic body—she attracts relationships that reflect that disconnection.
She may find herself:
Over-giving and people-pleasing
Feeling emotionally unfulfilled
Stuck in cycles of abandonment or betrayal
Choosing partners who lack depth, spiritual presence, or emotional maturity
This is not about blame—it’s about energetic resonance. When we abandon ourselves, we attract people who mirror that abandonment.
Trauma, Conditioning & the Wounded Feminine
From a Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) and somatic perspective, emotional disconnection isn’t just a mindset—it’s stored in the body. Many women carry inherited beliefs and trauma that taught them to disconnect from their emotional truth to survive.
Passion, softness, vulnerability, intuition—these aspects of the feminine were historically seen as dangerous or weak. So we traded them for productivity, independence, and emotional suppression. But in doing so, we silenced our inner voice—the one that guides us to truth, safety, and soul-aligned relationships.
Why Psychic & Somatic Healing Matters
Reconnection doesn’t happen through logic. It happens through energetic healing, psychic therapy, and cellular recalibration. When we begin to feel again, when we clear ancestral wounds from the organs, and when we awaken to our spiritual self—we shift.
This is the foundation of the healing work Liz Camilla offers at Crystal Zen. Using a fusion of TCM, psychic therapy, and trauma-informed somatic techniques, she guides women back to the core of who they are.
From that place, relationships transform. Not because someone else changes—but because you do.
Signs You're Disconnected From Your Soul
You feel numb, even in love
You struggle to trust yourself or your intuition
Your relationships feel transactional rather than devotional
You're always the healer, the fixer, the strong one
You yearn for deeper intimacy but don’t know how to receive it
The Path Forward: Return to Self, Return to Love
Your soul is the missing piece. When you come home to it, you stop searching for someone else to complete you. You begin to attract or nurture relationships that honour your wholeness.
If you’re ready to awaken that connection, Liz invites you to explore the healing journeys at Crystal Zen, like the Feminine Reset or Venus Sensual Awakening.
Because the relationship you have with yourself is the foundation for every other relationship in your life.
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